Notes 2 Inspire: Give Yourself Space

Ever have a deadline or goal for yourself and it feels like everything is getting in the way? I mean doesn’t the world know you have things to do! Or, maybe you’re like me and you do a lot in one day. And, it feels like if you hit one red light or if your computer takes too long to upload you are going to run out of time. How can you create space in your day, week, life to be surprised? Or, at the very least so that you don’t have to rush?

xx~LL

Notes 2 Inspire: Find the Power In No

Got a problem with saying “yes?” Well, then this week I want you to find power in saying “no.” The more often you say no the more control you have in what you get to do! I know you don’t want to miss out on things but some things are not for you and actually take away options for you to say “yes” to you! So, if you’re an over scheduler what would happen if you responded to every request with “ooh, let me look at my calendar and get back to you.” Or, “I think I have something but let me see if I can reschedule it.”

What would happen if you left space for the surprise?

xx~LL

Notes 2 Inspire: Just Keep Sharing

Have you told people what you’re up to and then feel like no one is listening? Or, worse, that they just don’t care? I so hear ya! But, in this week’s ‘Notes 2 Inspire’ I’ve got tips for you to get out there and keep sharing! You got this!

xx~LL

Notes 2 Inspire: How Can You Be More Curious?

They saying that curiosity killed the cat but I think that’s to keep people from being curious. Actually, if you are more curious you can learn so much more about others and they, in turn, will want to learn more information about you and what you do! Practicing being curious, letting others impress you, will actually help you network and build relationships. More on this in this week’s vlog of inspo.

xx~LL

Notes 2 Inspire: How Would You Act If….

If you are wanting to uplevel your life, make a certain amount of income then you have to put those aspirations in how you run your business and schedule your life! Would someone who is making $100k, $500k or more be doing ALL the work? This week’s “notes 2 inspire” asks you what you should be doing and what you should be delegating.

xx~LL

Notes 2 Inspire: What are You Comparing Yourself To?

Hey hey, this week’s “notes 2 inspire” is all about the trap of comparison! Comparison is the robber of happiness. It keeps you from doing what you feel you were meant to do. It makes you feel like you are not good enough. What are you comparing yourself to?

xx~LL

Notes 2 Inspire: Your Mess is Your Message

I have heard “your mess is your message” for years! I have no idea who I heard it from first. But, a few years ago I heard it on a podcast, then I heard it through Lori Harder and Jen Gottlieb and again on a podcast. And while I nodded along as if they were preaching to the choir I really didn’t digest that phrase. It resonated and left. Kind of like a great brownie. A moment on the lips and then you drink some milk and the deliciousness is gone.

But, recently it stuck. I heard “your mess is your message” when in a coaching session with my mastermind and I blurted out my mess and immediately realized how it is SOOO my message!

So, my challenge to you this week is to brain dump your mess. How can you share what you are trying to clean up the most to help others?

xx~LL

Notes 2 Inspire: Some Meetings are Just For a Moment

About 6ish years ago I was leaving my relationship, home, totaled my car and the studio I taught my clients was closing. A friend of mine wanted me to meet someone. And, honestly, I wasn’t feeling super excited to make a new friend. It wasn’t like I didn’t want to but you know when you’re going through stuff, it’s hard to make space or start something new.

Anyways, I met the friend of a friend and within a few more hangs she introduced me to a guy who I am now married to. And, the girl, who is amazing (I’m eternally grateful) and I are more like social media friends. Our relationship was more for a season (as far as we know…the future has yet to unfold).

My point is, sometimes you meet people for one tiny moment. A conversation that will teach you something you need to know, an intro to your future partner, or someone who can help you with your dream.

And, it’s ok to let those meetings be for a moment. Don’t make them longer than they are designed. Allow them to be what they are to be and that may even mean letting go of some people who have been in your life longer. Have you been keeping friendships longer than maybe they were meant to be kept?

This week, take inventory of those chance encounters that were stepping stones to where you want to be. It’s a pretty fun experiment. What’s one of the most random encounters you have that made a difference in your life?

xx~LL

Notes 2 Inspire: Be So Imperfect it Drives People Crazy

You know how much I think perfectionism is just procrastination? If you don’t then let me introduce myself. Hello, I am LL and I used to be a perfectionist. And, then I realized I was just being a procrastinator. And, really, who wants to be a procrastinator?

Now, I know there is plenty of chatter about how some procrastination is a good thing. It allows ideas to percolate. And, I would agree with that. But, I am not talking about the percolating kind of procrastination. I am talking about the delay, make excuses, dream of it but never pull the trigger, kind of procrastination. The deep belief that it needs to be perfect before you can share it with anyone.

Let me just tell you that you will always be tweaking things.

ALWAYS

There are more guarantees in life than death and taxes.

Updating your website will be a constant task.

So, launch it! You can make changes as you get feedback and learn how your users are using it.

Share that blog. You can always write and update or edit it later.

Give that speech!

Paint that picture.

Post that video.

You don’t get good by thinking about it.

You get better and better by doing.

The author of “the happiness project” said in an interview she’d rather have that get together then plan the perfect dinner party that never happens.

So, press “go”, “publish” or “play!”

Because the more you share who you are and care less about being so perfect the more you’ll drive people crazy for you!

Being you is more attractive than being curated.

What will do imperfectly today?

xx~LL 

Notes 2 Inspire: Boldly Brag Like You Never Have

On the first in-person day of my this new mastermind I joined to help me grow my businesses, even more, they asked us to take 60 seconds to brag big! I instantly felt a pang of fear. What would I say? I mean, what I have I done with bragging about? Not going to lie I felt a bit speechless and then I realized how dumb that all sounded. I mean, have you ever actually listened to some of the thoughts in your head? We all have stuff to brag about. So, why don’t we?

For the next hour I listened to 40 people share their big brags. I was number 30 so to say I sat there ready to share the whole time would be a lie. I had to keep reminding myself of all the crazy amazing big and small things I had accomplished. I took out my journal and began writing them down. I kept writing until it was my turn.

And for 60 seconds I share all the things I thought were worth bragging about.

I felt pretty awesome. I mean, I also felt like in comparison my brags were as big as others but for me they were big time brags.

Afterwards when we were all mingling people were coming up to me to talk about how cool some of my brags were! WHAT?!?!

So, it got me thinking, why don’t we take a moment to brag? Brag without qualifying. Brag without making our achievements from “luck.” Or, making my win small so others won’t feel bad.

This week, brag boldy! Brag BIG. If you don’t want to do it in person out loud as I did then comment below with your brags. Brag like no one is watching.

xx~LL