What do you do when someone does something to you? Do you react, obsess about it? Do you call your friends and tell the story over and over again? Do you play it in your mind and send ill will? Or, do you remember what you are here to do?
One thing I absolutely struggle with is how I talk to myself after I made mistakes. I would get upset, wonder how I could do something so lame. Think and rethink about how I should have done it. And, before you know it that little mistake had taken over my day. I know I am not alone in this. And, while I am getting better at the self talk. It’s not just because I need to or should. It’s because mistakes are worth having! And, we should truly fall in love with our mistakes.
You’re probably wondering why I believe this. But, have you ever taken a wrong turn and found an amazing cafe or shop on a street you would never have found yourself on? Or, have you ever gotten lost on vacation only to discover a cute little town that no tourists go to?
Mistakes are feedback. They give us a new perspective on a thought, they give us insight into how we should or shouldn’t do something. And unless you are a surgeon most mistakes are not so life-altering that you cannot bounce back. In fact, most mistakes put you on the right path for you!
Some of the biggest blessings in my life are due to the mistakes I made. Things I didn’t do, or forgot to do or didn’t do “right.” I cannot imagine what my life would look like or where I would be if I hadn’t made a mistake.
So, don’t just be nice to yourself after you make a mistake. Fall in love with that mistake. Welcome it in! See where it leads you!
How many mistakes can you fall in love with this week?